A Fun Fiction Based Read For All Creative People who loves to solve problems.
The online dating game till now has not very easy for everyone. Hence for people whose only hope of getting laid is through a dating app are virgins or sex starved. They have to keep themselves satisfied with that one lucky fling they got while using apps like Tinder or OkCupid. There are various factors behind why people are not getting laid. Here we are not going to talk about those people who decided to be a celibate or those who don’t have sexual desires or just happily prefer to control their mind and use their sexual energy for something greater hence using dating apps just to make friends 😉
We will talk about people who desperately needs to get laid and for whom meaning of happiness is sex.
Dating apps today are trying a lot to hook up as many people as possible by Including features which are are run by Artificial intelligence but still are not able to help everyone get laid. They cannot guarantee that a person would definitely get laid. Where is the help for single people who don’t find a match nor finds someone outside social media and are dying of loneliness?
This article though fictional will provide a food for thought for all the AI enthusiasts and creative problem solvers who have tried or are trying to enhance the experience of dating apps. Fiction lovers would love to read it for sure.
Some countries are more open about sex but many are not. Society and culture also plays a very important in our sexual lives if we let to. For some there is a stigma of being judged for expressing their sexuality. Many countries give sex a taboo image. Women especially in many countries are not very used to expressing themselves. People are image conscious too and they don’t want people to know that they are looking for sex or have a particular fetish so they wait until they get married to slowly open up. In today’s fast moving world people are busy too, they get tired swiping on dating apps or approaching people on the streets. Only a few succeed. Some are born charmers, knows to attract the opposite sex through their personality and attitude. But others who can’t or fail to do the same don’t want to work so hard to get laid. Many still work in high hopes of getting laid but eventually only gets frustrated and depressed. So they accept their fate. If they are good looking, confident or rich chances are high but what if they don’t have all these skills? What if they haven’t yet met their special one yet? How much dating apps can help or is helping them today? We already know the answer.
This image shows the results of a research done in Japan to estimate virginity of the Japanese people based on their sex, job profiles, and sexual orientation. It clearly shows that sexual experience is decreasing.
This is not a very easy problem to solve because there are many underlying factors, too many variabilities when it comes to people’s attitudes, behaviors, motivations and desires when it comes to dating. Each of these also have sub categories of underlying factors which User Researchers who are working for dating service companies are working their ass off to find and use those them as insights to help build Better Product Strategies for the dating apps to be able to help people as much as they can by adding new features day by day trying to create the triggers, trying to make the product seamless, making the users(the lonely guys) invest in the product by giving them their time, money, sweat and sometimes even blood. The variable reward these poor users who are looking to hook-up gets is in the form of some lucky once in a blue moon matches which may or may not result in them getting laid or nothing at all. Hope keeps them hooked. What a great reward👏
This builds frustration, demotivation and sometimes negatively impacts self image or confidence levels specially too especially of men. That’s why in this article I would write more from a men’s point of view, keeping him as the focus user.
Hiring an escort or going to the strip club is not the solution. Many man wouldn’t go for that option even if they had the money. And many would not even use a dating app. They might not like the very feeling of getting
Lack of sex leads to depression and it causes —
Men and even women wants to be in control of the dating game — they don’t want to take whatever they get. Men are tired of reading alpha male tips for getting laid.
There is a superior feeling when you get laid with someone who is attracted to you too without trying much. We want all men to get that.
Men also don’t get laid due to various other reasons — Men have their choices too. It’s almost the same thing with women — they have their choices too. But their options are usually higher when it comes to guys to choose. For women the problem is more like not being able to find the right one whereas for most men the problem is like not being able to find anyone at all. Than they also have their own individual expectations of experiences they want to get while dating, desires and needs to be fulfilled.